For The Sake Of Aaron
Celebrating Our Black Men

"Men for All Seasons" by Charles Bibbs

 

Young Black males must take control of their image

Young Black males are increasingly a part of the criminal justice system today.

Regrettably, many of them are being sentenced as adults. Equally regrettable, many of these males are not afforded the opportunity of having their criminal records expunged after turning eighteen years of age.

There are many theories about how this is affecting the future of young men.

Statistics bear out the fact that with better lawyers some would probably be given reduced sentences or in some cases parole. Poverty precludes that choice most often.

It is imperative, however, that young men immediately redirect their goals and their lifestyles.

Their self-image can no longer be stereotyped and tied to pre-conceived notions.

What they select to wear, the colors they put on, the manner in which their clothing hangs often conjure up preconceived ideas.

It is time to stop wearing those saggy, baggy, drooping pants and take pride in their appearances.

Unruly and inappropriate behavior, while in public, must cease. Young men should address others by their names, not nick names, and speak in complete sentences when communicating.

And they must learn that when making formal appearances, especially for employment or court dates, they should wear clothing that covers their bodies, piercings and tattos.

Wake up! Don’t let lifestyle, particularly clothing choices, dictate your image, or let your fads portray or destroy your future.

Our ancestors and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. did not struggle or die for our youth to spend their lives in prison.

They struggled and died for us all to have a better life! What we wear is a choice! Make it clean, neat and appropriate.

Steer clear of gang colors and styles. Set your own style, let it speak to how you hope to live, dress and be represented when you grow up.